6 kinh nghiệm hữu ích cho năm mới 2019

If you ask what kind of person I want to be, I will now answer that: become a principle person, understand your principles and persevere on those principles.
Matsuura's "100 Basics" Yataro recorded his principle experiences during many years of work, similarly, Ray Dalio, founder of Bridgewate, also wrote the "Principle". to share your own life principles. Personally, before planning for 2019, I also summarized last year's experiences, from which I selected 6 experiences that I think will help a lot in the new year to share with everybody.

1. Reverse thinking

This experience comes from Charlie Munger, a good partner of Warren Buffett's "investment tycoon," but without reading it, I feel like it's shining brightly.

We often have the habit of thinking positively, reverse thinking is a method to remind people how to turn back thinking.

For example, when you sit down to write a plan for the new year, forward thinking will think that in order to receive great rewards at the end of the year, I have to do 1, 2, 3; thinking backwards thinking that in order to get a real big prize at the end of the year, I need to avoid 1,2,3 ...

For example, if you want to have a happy life, forward thinking will think that in order to be like that, you need to have a good job, have a good mate; thinking backwards thinking that you must not be lazy or wasteful.

Turn over problems and thoughts, contemplate whether you must avoid any traps that can achieve your goals, change your perspective, and your thinking angle can help you see the key, help you "clear" one. faster way.

2. Slowly, but definitely fast

It looks contradictory but actually has a profound meaning. Slowly, because anything needs to be patient, complete step by step, not to be impatient. But human life is also very short, the most energetic, energetic period will pass, so hurry up and do something. 

For things to do, don't think too much. I am suitable or not, like or dislike, do it or not, these problems do not have to be thought of as an answer. You have to work quickly, and at the same time establish an effective, improper feedback mechanism that adjusts, then continues. Actions can fold but psychology must be calm, mastering different situations.

3. Don't be afraid of "planning"

If you don't know the direction yourself, then you will never be able to reach your destination. That important step is to brave the plan, never to do it but to give up, the shelf, whatever it is, just make the first draft. 

Then regularly review the plan, compare it to act, either adjust the action, or adjust the plan, then you will see your life, plan yourself and make it meaningful. and how interesting.

4. 80/20 principle

I think everyone is familiar with this principle. Anything, the most important part, the most critical part only accounts for 20%, just by completing this 20% you can achieve 80% efficiency. In other words, know how to capture the bottom line.

The important thing of this principle lies in having judgment and decisiveness, focusing, observing and grasping the key.

For example, when I write a plan for the new year, I will think that "this year it will be fun to do this only" to create the most important goal, the work and life will then be developed. Declare focus around this goal. By the end of the year, even if other small targets have not been completed yet, the most important goal has already been completed, and this year is worth it! 

Last year, my goal is to graduate with a master's degree + ABCD, ABCD probably only completed 60%, the most important thing is that a master's degree has already been done, I am very happy, despite the unfinished work but I can still comfort myself, anyway, this year I am very good.

5. 70% will do = 100% will do

This experience is especially for those who are also difficult to choose. 

Difficulties in selection often have two manifestations, one is to face "doing" or "not doing", it seems that you have to analyze all the advantages and disadvantages of those two options before getting ready to take make decision. Secondly, despite the decision to "do", psychology is still hesitant. At the end, either want to withdraw, or are in the early stages of hesitation should not prepare well, and the completion rate is relatively low.

Later I found out that there is no need to be 100%, but if you have a tendency of 70% to want to go to work, you will definitely go to work, and you don't need to think about it. action is okay.

This method helps me save the time of hesitation, the completion is also better, the ability to comply is also enhanced. The ratio of each person is of course not the same, people can try and find the most appropriate rate for themselves, in fact this is also a process that helps you understand yourself better.

6. Success = see clearly the nature of the incident + dare to risk

I used to think that success belongs to those who see the nature of things, they have a vision, can see the path to success among a confused society.

But, I realized that just looking at it is not enough, you have to have a big liver, dare to risk, dare to follow your own thoughts, maybe you can succeed.

Above are the experiences that I think are very helpful to start the New Year of Pig, I consider them "Principles" of life. Both me and you, let's gradually accumulate 100 basic principles of your own life.