Gửi con gái của mẹ 10 năm sau nữa
Sweetie,
When she wrote this letter, she was very small, innocent, and innocent. So I am writing a letter to my son in 10 years, do I worry too much? I am worried that in the future, I will be afraid to confess about the past stumbling blocks with me (which most mothers do), so I just need to write these lines. I write down my experiences, to prepare my children before I go to life, so no matter what happens, I can live happily.
1. My life, I am the only person who can decide it
When I go to University, when I graduate, it will be the time when I feel the most disoriented. My friends have their own dreams, goals, and they enthusiastically do it. I will feel pressured myself that I need to know the life I dream of, the work I am passionate about, and so on. If you realize it right away, it will be great. If at that time, you cannot identify, then accept and spend a time of bewilderment. If you can fulfill that dream, it will be even more wonderful. If that doesn't work, then it's fine, because this life always has many unexpected turns. As long as the mother's darling every morning is ready to step out of the warm blanket, and eagerly start a new day.
2.No dream is too far away, no dream is too small
If those dreams are really what you want to get, don't let others' opinions dampen your will. People are willing to give advice and comments, but they don't live their lives. I can keep my dream of being a pilot girl like when I was a kid. I can also become an ordinary elementary school teacher like my grandmother.
3. Don't let anyone stop you from fulfilling your dreams
If the lover, or even her husband, prevents him from fulfilling his dream, whether by gentle words, or forcibly, the man is not worth sacrificing. If he really loves you, he will encourage you to do what you like. Don't confine yourself to a relationship that you can't be yourself.
4. If you are happy, you are also happy
Although there will be times when I want you to do something because I think it is good for me, and sad when I do not listen. But prove to my mother that I really love it, and seriously choose, I will still support you.
5. Find yourself a friend who can share everything
Look for a person who can love, and listen patiently to me. Don't think you're too demanding to do so. You deserve it, and that person will listen to you because they really care.
6. No one can determine the value of your child
Children, and everyone is born with a meaning, own value, and that exists in each of us. You don't need to listen to anyone, or use money to define your value. What I need to do, is find that diamond, be in me.
7.Con will stumble several times. The important thing is how long it takes you to stand up.
Usually many bad things will come at the same time. But don't just sit there, and cry from day to day. Try to quickly draw lessons, and start over with a smarter way. If you are sad, and want to cry, do not stop yourself, but just cry and reconstruct everything yourself, then the tears will make more sense.
8.Mother is always ready to listen to my phone, even if it is 2 am:
Mom may be a little annoyed and say "Why are you still awake now?" .. but will always listen to what you say. Mom can blame "Why is that wild?", But she will always deal with things with her children. Remember, mom is always with me.
9. Nothing is unresolved:
Just do whatever you like, eat something you like, or listen to music, etc. Then, start thinking to find ways to solve the problem, things will be simpler when you are calm.
10. Eat what you want:
Paying attention to health, beauty is praiseworthy, but don't stop eating the fat tiramisu that I still like. It's best to keep eating what you like, and work hard.
11. Don't let numbers make you lose confidence
Regardless of the number of children, the number of scales, the size of the pants, the score, or the salary, they don't say anything.
12. Don't be too heavy on past mistakes
Currently I will only see the negative side of the failures. But, believe me, I should thank you, or at least accept it as an experience. The child is now created by all past events, including tripping.
13.Don't let sadness in the past take away your current happiness
I have met a bad guy, or I have been bitten by a close friend, I understand how hurt this is. But, that doesn't mean everyone else is.
14. See a beautiful scene, instead of taking pictures, feel with your eyes
The camera captures moments, helping people who cannot see it directly to feel it. And you, right there, why don't you look with your own eyes?
15. Play with friends that you feel comfortable with
Don't change yourself to suit others, it's not necessary, and it's not long-lasting.
16. Go anywhere you want
Do not hesitate to go anywhere, go to enjoy freedom, and expand your limits.
17. Cook some food I like
In addition to saving benefits, try feeling like you can cook for yourself, I like it very well.
18. The most interesting thing is that when you stay awake and can't sleep, wake up, and find snacks.
19. Often wear flat shoes, instead of high-heeled shoes on occasions that need to walk a lot
Although high heels will help your baby look better, but you will not hide the painful face, upset when you have to go too much. Walking on shoes makes your child comfortable, and better for health.
20. Always remember that mom, also like me now
Mother has also experienced things like you are meeting, or just some other small details. Please memorize this, and remind me if you miss me. Don't let the generation gap make your mother and me apart, I don't want it at all.
21. And finally, love this life
Don't worry about things you're not happy with in life, look at those positive things. I will always feel more gentle and beautiful.
This is just part of what I want to share with you, I tried to pick out the most important things, let me understand, and not feel bored. Now, looking at me and imagining the future after 10 years, I can't help but be excited. How will you grow up? At that time were my mother and I close to each other like two close friends?
I always look forward to being with you, my daughter.
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